Many Christians here imply Gays are less than masculine. I did 4 years U.S. Army. Did YOU?

I did four years in the U.S. Army. 57E (Laundry and Shower Specialist). The truckload of washers I was driving in Kosovo was blown off the road by a Serbian Land Mine. I am alive only because the rear wheels went over the mine and not the front wheels. Most of the people here casting aspersions on my masculinity were never in the Boy Scouts, much less the military. What gives you the right to put down my masculinity?