Am I a loser? You decide.?

Your not a loser. Having a high value on relationships is a good thing. Look at all the people out there who have no respect for their body and will give it away to anyone. They will never have a real solid relationship because they are so eager to gives themselves to anyone, and that makes it not special in a real relationship. So there is nothing wrong with you in my opinion. Its good to have morales, this world lacks people like that nowadays.